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Mary/Martha Monday #3. What's the Best Way to Teach the Bible: Topical or Chapter-By-Chapter?1/6/2020
 Surprise! I “pinch-hit” preached at my church yesterday with about two hours' notice. While I’ve pinch hit keynotes for years, I've never had just two total hours to get ready. Also, pinch-hit preaching on a Sunday morning was a first for me. I usually speak at women's events.
The pastor texted about two hours before service, feeling too sick to function. We'd recently lost our Associate Pastor and were without a deacon board. The “Mary/Martha” aspect of this story involves the way my pastor teaches and how I teach. Both are powerful and consistent with Scripture, but they’re about as opposite as possible.
Instinctively I knew with confidence I needed to prepare a message using my method vs. his. The result of this radical, surprise switch-up in teaching methods worked beautifully.
Believe! If God calls you to it, He will equip you to do it. We are created to be His flow-through-vessels. I call times like this a "data dump." I just listen and follow through. What if I'd wasted time trying to figure out if I was supposed to it like Doug? What if I'd invested energy worrying how the congregation would respond to such a radical derivation from the normal teaching style? What if I'd gotten up apologetically instead of with confidence? I was totally SURE I was the right person, in the right place, at the right time for God to flow through! And, you, my friend, YOU are who you are by God's design. Rejoice in it and share your awesomeness with the world! *My PPT Master includes ALL the slides I've ever used in presentations. It's a huge file, but allows me to grab images for stories, strategies and statistics in a flash. Do you have one? If not, what do you use? www.Marnie.com / My Facebook Page / www.WomenSpeakers.com  Sandra Joseph |
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During this hour with Marnie and Tricia, you'll discover:
- That there are two very different types of grief.
- The #1 thing that complicates grief.
- What grieving women have in common with women from the book of Judges.
- The 3 Biblical ways to help you better handle grief.
- How the 5 W’s and a H of story-writing can help you restrain difficult emotions, and the important difference between restraining vs. denying emotions.
- The most difficult people to respect, and why respect during grief matters.
- Six practical things to remember when dealing with grief.
- Tips for friends and family of those who are grieving.
- What to do when your story doesn’t end the way you want.
The lie is: All women should be more like Mary and less like Martha.
The truth is: All women should be fully who God created them to be, worshiping as they go!
Jesus absolutely loved Martha's service as much as Mary's worship.
In Luke 10:41, when Jesus says His famous, "Martha, Martha" line, He is NOT saying Mary is better than Martha, nor that Martha should try to be more like Mary. He's simply pointing out that women like to compare themselves with each other, find fault in each other, and use those moments to feel either a) very superior or b) sorry for themselves.
In the moment we're discussing in this Mary/Martha Monday Series, Martha's gotten her priorities all mixed up. Instead of worshiping and being grateful as she worked, she turned her focus to discontent with her sister's calling.
Jesus responded so lovingly. I don't see a demeaning, icky tone anywhere. I imagine Him looking at Martha with so much love, appreciation and compassion as He gently said:
"Martha, Martha. You are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
I'm going to amplify this in the way I understand it, the way I hear Him saying it:
It's almost more important to consider what He DIDN'T say. He did not say:
He only addressed her momentary misunderstanding of the situation. He felt loved by both, so in His compassion toward her, as she was left alone to prepare the meal without help, and His determination to not allow to remain stuck in the lie, He corrected her thinking, for our benefit.
Both Mary's "sitting down focus" and Martha's "standing up service" were highly valued by Jesus. It was His desire to make us WHOLE that prompted His verbal correction.
He offered it only when Martha a) felt sorry for herself, b) spoke a lie as if it was the truth and c) criticized a sister for worshiping God that He intervened.
I truly believe that if Martha had worshiped as she worked that day, as did on so many other days, this perspective transformation would have never taken place. But, for our benefit, it did. Praise God!
Satan, in his usual way, twisted and still twists this moment from a beautiful example of how God loves EVERY woman's worship, into something that has caused hard-working women to feel shameful.
I'm excited to launch this Mary/Martha Mondays series to explore more on this topic!
The truth is: All women should be fully who God created them to be, worshiping as they go!
Jesus absolutely loved Martha's service as much as Mary's worship.
In Luke 10:41, when Jesus says His famous, "Martha, Martha" line, He is NOT saying Mary is better than Martha, nor that Martha should try to be more like Mary. He's simply pointing out that women like to compare themselves with each other, find fault in each other, and use those moments to feel either a) very superior or b) sorry for themselves.
In the moment we're discussing in this Mary/Martha Monday Series, Martha's gotten her priorities all mixed up. Instead of worshiping and being grateful as she worked, she turned her focus to discontent with her sister's calling.
Jesus responded so lovingly. I don't see a demeaning, icky tone anywhere. I imagine Him looking at Martha with so much love, appreciation and compassion as He gently said:
"Martha, Martha. You are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
I'm going to amplify this in the way I understand it, the way I hear Him saying it:
- Martha, Martha. You are my favorite "hostess with the mostest." You always take such good care of Me when I visit your home. I love you so much!
- You are worried and upset about many things - At the moment, you've let all those irons in the fire, and the meal you're preparing, become your mini-god. I'm excited to taste what you've got cooking, but I'd love for you to be able to make it for me, for all of us, in a spirit of peace and joy instead of worry and anxiety.
- few things are needed—or indeed only one. Sweetheart, focus all your work and effort and desire and love on Me. I love you! I came to your home fully expecting to experience your love through good cooking. I plan to enjoy upcoming the meal you're preparing for Me, but I never intended or want to take advantage of you! Take your time, enjoy the process, worship as you work, and another day, you and I, we'll walk and talk the way you like to do it with Me. I love that, too!
- Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her. Martha, in this moment, Mary's spending time with me. She's thought through her options, has chosen to believe God will help you in the kitchen, and is giving ME her undivided attention. I'm loving this, Martha! This is a special time for me and Mary. Will you let her do this for Me? Will you gift this to her? And, precious Martha, I can hardly wait to taste what I'm smelling when dinner time comes--as long as you do it for me from a heart of love. Yes?
It's almost more important to consider what He DIDN'T say. He did not say:
- Martha, come sit here. The meal will make itself.
- Martha, face it, your sister is better than you.
- Martha, I see your service and disapprove.
He only addressed her momentary misunderstanding of the situation. He felt loved by both, so in His compassion toward her, as she was left alone to prepare the meal without help, and His determination to not allow to remain stuck in the lie, He corrected her thinking, for our benefit.
Both Mary's "sitting down focus" and Martha's "standing up service" were highly valued by Jesus. It was His desire to make us WHOLE that prompted His verbal correction.
He offered it only when Martha a) felt sorry for herself, b) spoke a lie as if it was the truth and c) criticized a sister for worshiping God that He intervened.
I truly believe that if Martha had worshiped as she worked that day, as did on so many other days, this perspective transformation would have never taken place. But, for our benefit, it did. Praise God!
Satan, in his usual way, twisted and still twists this moment from a beautiful example of how God loves EVERY woman's worship, into something that has caused hard-working women to feel shameful.
I'm excited to launch this Mary/Martha Mondays series to explore more on this topic!
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DEB COPELAND
1. For now! For now, this is happening; but it isn’t forever!
2. TIME on TASK.
3. Grow up in Christ, mature in your walk, and live a life worthy of the calling.
4. I know that I know.
Deb Copeland lives to give. An author, world class entrepreneur, former Fortune 500 executive, adoptive parent, philanthropist, ministry leader, wife, mother, and lover of souls, Deb has spoken to multitudes from coast to coast. With clarity and authenticity, she shares how Jesus Christ has sustained her through her darkest, most difficult times, and how you, too, can experience His grace. Learn more at www.DebSpeaks.com
2. TIME on TASK.
3. Grow up in Christ, mature in your walk, and live a life worthy of the calling.
4. I know that I know.
Deb Copeland lives to give. An author, world class entrepreneur, former Fortune 500 executive, adoptive parent, philanthropist, ministry leader, wife, mother, and lover of souls, Deb has spoken to multitudes from coast to coast. With clarity and authenticity, she shares how Jesus Christ has sustained her through her darkest, most difficult times, and how you, too, can experience His grace. Learn more at www.DebSpeaks.com
maureen hager
- The best way to heal a broken heart is to give God all the pieces.
- You are not too broken, your past does not define you, and you can be whole again.
- Become a Prisoner of Hope.
- See yourself as an overcomer in Christ’s steadfast love.
- Nothing can separate you from the Lord’s love for you.
- Be willing to surrender embedded memories of shame, guilt, and condemnation to God.
- Brokenness is a reality for all of us.
- God commands us to forgive, but it requires a conscious choice to do so.
Maureen Hager is an author, inspirational speaker, and blogger. Her book, Love’s Bullet, chronicles her journey from a wounded victim in a biker gang war to a transformed life by God’s love. Learn more at www.MaureenHager.com.
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